So if you can’t fly solo (which is my recommendation) agree with your friend that you’re going to split up for a good chunk of the party to see who else you two can meet. Looking like you’re going into a boardroom instead of a club — Keep in mind that men are visually stimulated.
If you present yourself at a mixer like you’re about to give a Power Point presentation, that’s not a turn on.
So just like working out at the gym, when you keep motivated, consistent, and positive you get the results you’re seeking.
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You will have a better time (and so will the women) if you accept that you’ve already signed up and gotten yourself to the event—which is more than half the battle— so you might as well enjoy it. Checking out their assets—Women can tell when you’re talking to their breasts.
You think they don’t notice the up-down look but they do.
Physical attractiveness is only one factor in compatibility – see if there are women who have something interesting to say even if they aren’t on Maxim’s Hot 100 list. Not talking if they don’t feel immediate physical attraction — Based on my observations, the women at Stir events tend to be much more open to talking to guys whether they’re interested or not.
Acting snarky or sassy won’t build chemistry with the right guy—kindness, compliments, and laughter will take you much further. Being accessible – When women move around the event, they open themselves up to meeting new guys.
Take a sexy pair of shoes, a shorter skirt, or a trendier jacket to work if you don’t have time to go home and change so he can tell you care about him to noticing you.
Otherwise it might seem like you’re too busy with work to get to know him. Being rude after he’s worked up the courage to talk to you – Women sometimes forget that guys have feelings too.
You can talk to your girlfriends anywhere, but you’re at a mixer to meet men.
Even a quarterback would be intimidated to break through that defensive line.